Friday, July 11, 2008

Little Man..

I'll start with sleep. Haha! What is that?

Good morning Mommy!!


I do have to say that Caden had a better night last night. From what I remember he did not wake me up at 11:30pm. He slept from 9ish to 2:30am!! This was his normal sleep schedule. I fed him, but he did wake up again around 4am and finally at 6:45am. I'm still tired, but I don't feel like I was hit by a semi truck today. Last week was rough and I'm sure it won't be the last difficult week to get through.

Caden is 12 weeks!! Next Thursday is the big 3 months. I took him to the doctors yesterday because I thought he had a rash on his arm. Wouldn't know you - when I got to the doctors it was gone. I guess it was a patch of dry skin. I also talked to the doctor about his gas issues. He always has gas, but there are times where you just feel so bad because it is evident of how painful it can be for him. I have done a lot of research and talk to enough moms that have had babies and have babies Caden's age that are going through the same thing. It is completely normal. The doctor said he should grow out of it within the next month. TG!! I've been reading this book by Dr. Karp called The Happiest Baby on the Block. Dr. Karp explains that the first 3 months of an infants life are like a "4th trimester". He says that babies really should have this 4th trimester in the womb. Unfortunately, they could not fit through the birth canal (nor would any woman want an extra 3 months of pregnancy), so our bodies evict them too soon. He also talks about how their digestive tracks are immature and take the extra trimester to delvelop. He also talks about calming techniques for colicy babies. I definitely recommend this book for any mother with an infant. I wish I would have read it before Caden was born.

Caden weighed 13lbs 7oz! He gained 1lb 3oz in 30 days. The doctor seemed impressed with his gain and said he seems perfectly healthy. Go Caden!

A couple of nights ago I brought Caden upstairs to see his Daddy in bed. We all spent a good 1/2 hour with each other. Caden was being absolutely precious! All smiles for his Daddy. He even rolled over to him. He only made it on one side and then rolled back.

Did I mention Caden LOVES Baby Einstein videos? He sits in his bouncer just kicking, wiggling and laughing away. He also drools a lot when watches these. He gets upset when I turn it off though. I ordered two videos the other day that I'm waiting for. One is called Start Smart that a friend of mine recommend. I also ordered Baby Signing Times. We are going to teach Caden a few words in sign language, so he can communicate with us before he is able to talk. I've heard great reviews on this DVD. We are going to teach him the basics like milk, more, all done, help, mommy, daddy, ect.

Look at me playing with my keys!

Monday, July 7, 2008

Last night....

Caden had a better night than Mommy last night. He went to bed at his normal 8pm bedtime. He did wake up around 10pm, but I gave him his binkie and rocked him back to sleep. He woke up again around 11:30pm. I fed him this time around because the binkie just wasn't cutting it. He ate really good and fell back asleep just before midnight. I woke up around 2am for no apparent reason other than I was getting used to waking up every 2-3 hours (thanks to my darling son). I kept thinking that he would probably wake up, and I only have 2 more hours until my alarm goes off. Well, as I lay there tossing and turning he finally wakes up at 3:45am. I fed him and got up to start my day....

Oy vey!

Sunday, July 6, 2008

Sleep

Caden thought it would be fun for his Mommy if he reverted back to being a newborn. The past 3 nights remind me of when we first brought him home. He has been waking up every 2-3 hours and I'm now running on pure exhaustion again. I pray to the light above he does not wake up like that tonight as I have to work. Last night was the worst out of the past 3 nights. He went to bed around 8pm, which is his normal bedtime. He usually wakes up at 2am for a feeding and then back to bed until 4-5am. Last night he woke up at 10pm, 1:15a, 3:45am, 5:15am, and 7am. I also woke up around 11:30pm from some really weird dreams.

Ryan took Caden over to his mom's house for the afternoon, so I could take a nap. Unfortunately, I still had things that I needed to get done before the work week that I couldn't do earlier in the weekend. I ended up taking an hour or so nap. It felt good, but I'm still exhausted.

We were out and about all weekend, so maybe he was restless from too much stimulation. He could also be going through a growth spurt. I can't believe he will be 12 weeks on Thursday. He is almost 3 months old!

Caden sleeps in his playard in our room at night. It's been easier tending to him at night since his bedroom is downstairs. My goal is to start putting him in his crib next week - starting Thursday. Knowing me I'll probably sleep on the couch until I'm comfortable with him downstairs in his own room. A friend of mine told me her little girl started sleeping through the night when she was finally in her own room. She said it took a few nights, but that was it. Wish me luck is all I can say!

Friday, July 4, 2008

Before I was a Mom...

Someone posted this in my on-line forum.. How true is this?!

Before I was a Mom
I never tripped over toys or forgot words to a lullaby.
I didn't worry whether or not my plants were poisonous.
I never thought about immunizations.

Before I was a Mom
I had never been puked on. Pooped on. Chewed on. Peed on.
I had complete control of my mind and my thoughts
I slept all night.

Before I was a Mom
I never held down a screaming child so doctors could do tests. Or give shots.
I never looked into teary eyes and cried.
I never got gloriously happy over a simple grin.
I never sat up late hours at night watching a baby sleep.

Before I was a Mom
I never held a sleeping baby just because I didn't want to put him/her down.
I never felt my heart break into a million pieces when I couldn't stop the hurt.
I never knew that something so small could affect my life so much.
I never knew that I could love someone so much.
I never knew I would love being a Mom.

Before I was a Mom
I didn't know the feeling of having my heart outside my body.
I didn't know how special it could feel to feed a hungry baby.
I didn't know that bond between a mother and her child.
I didn't know that something so small could make me feel so important and happy.

Before I was a Mom
I had never gotten up in the middle of the night every 10 minutes to make sure all was okay.
I had never known the warmth, the joy, the love, the heartache, the wonderment, or the satisfaction of being a Mom.
I didn't know I was capable of feeling so much, before I was a Mom.

Thursday, July 3, 2008

Dear Caden

Dear Caden,

I'm so happy to be home with you for an extended weekend. We have lots of friends and family to visit, but hopefully we can still sneak in some cuddle time. The best thing in the whole world is snuggling with you. We visited Auntie Nines and her mom. You were so good and all smiles for everyone. I'm sorry I kept you up all morning. You are pretty tuckered this evening, so I'm letting you sleep. You'll probably want to stay up past your bedtime tonight. Auntie Nines is pregnant and you'll have a new friend to play with. Nina and I are already assuming that she is having a girl and we are planning your wedding ;) Auntie Nines sang you a song today "You are my Sunshine" and you smiled at her. Every time I sing - you cry. I would probably cry too.

You are holding your head up so much better during tummy time. You are doing it for longer and longer each day. Not that I want to wish time to go by any faster, but I can't wait for you to hold your head up on your own. Sometimes you bump your nose on our shoulders when you head gets to heavy. Depending on your mood you either brush it off or cry. Your almost laughing now. Sometimes when Mommy and Daddy are making funny faces you smile and let out a half laugh. You make me so proud when you reach new milestones, but it also makes me a little sad that you are already growing up. I can't believe you will be 3 months soon.



Daddy has been working really hard and soon he'll be working more hours. You will get to see him on Wednesday when he takes care of you, but most of the time it will just be me and you kiddo. He wants to work harder, so that we can save money for you in the future. Your Daddy loves you very much and Mommy loves you too. You are a little piece of heaven that I just adore.
Love,
Mommy